TRUE LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP

Love  everyone  with a deep  love  base  on charity, but  form friendship  with  those  who  can  share  virtues: A  virtuous person  behaves  in a moral and correct way. The higher the virtues you share and exchange with others the more perfect your friendship will be

In  our today  sexualized  society, true  friendship  and  the  desire  for  virginity  is the things  of the past  for  opposite  sex to engage  in friendship without sex. Why? Because sex is the   order of the day and not the society norms and value any longer. Friendship is not all about sex but virtues.

 At the course  of my research  toward  true love  and friendship  I met  a young man that  have  nothing but  he is going  out  with  six  girls. I then interviewed him to find out how he manages to succeed those beautiful girls.  A according to him God has bless him in the way that he never approach a girl and experience disappointments. He further explained that he have one shoe, one jeans trouser and shirt. Whenever  he  want to go for any  girl  he borrow cloths from  dry cleaners  and study the song  of Solomon  which is the only chapter  of the bible he knows  very well. That the love words  in the songs of Solomon helped him to convince young ladies who  are  the  only sources that help  him  throughout his studies  in the higher institution and even his daily survival. The young man love in this story is how to sustained him.

  My beloved reader if your mutual and reciprocal exchanges concern charity, devotion and Christian perfection, without sex   how wonderful this friendship will be. It will be excellent because it come from God, excellent because it lead to God. 

                                                                                                                           OBAJE MATTHIAS OP

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